Girls in skirts and boys in trousers. This has been the strictly gendered story of school uniform since long before the days of Tom Brown putting on a top hat and tails to learn his times tables or the girls of Hamlet of Radcliff school pitching up in starched aprons with gloves (seriously). Now the rules appear to be relaxing, as 80 state schools across the UK, including 40 primaries, have introduced gender-neutral policies allowing girls to wear trousers (which, beyond the school gate, many of us have been doing for at least a century) and boys to wear skirts.

“We introduced the policy more than a year ago,” Paula Weaver, headteacher at Allens Croft primary school in Birmingham, tells me. The school is thought to be the first state primary in the country to make their uniform policy explicitly gender-neutral, changing the wording and linking in staff, governors and parents.

In practice, what does this mean? “That children are expected to wear uniform, but they can wear whatever part of that uniform they want,” is her no-nonsense answer.

For other schools it’s about removing references to a pupil’s gender in uniform dress codes. “This year we’ve gone from a girls’ uniform and a boys’ uniform to a skirt uniform and a trousers uniform,” explains Liana Richards, deputy head teacher at Uplands Community College, a state secondary in East Sussex. “It’s about recognising the rights of students who feel they might not fit into the binary genders. It’s less of a big deal to the students than you might think. We haven’t seen that much difference yet, although some girls have made the conscious decision to wear the trousers uniform, which has to be worn with a tie.”

The move is part of a government-funded drive to support LGBT+ children in schools and be more open to children questioning their gender or sexual identity. It follows the decision in January by the 170-year-old private school Brighton College to scrap uniform rules for trans pupils. Research by Educate and Celebrate, a charity giving LGBT+ inclusive training to school staff, found that 53% of schools don’t teach about LGBT+ relationships and 49% don’t teach the definitions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans+.

Allens Croft and Uplands Community College are two of a number of primaries and secondaries designated a “best practice school” by Educate and Celebrate for, among other things, its gender-neutral uniform policy. “It’s in line with the ethos of our school,” Weaver explains. “It ties in with our equality work around homophobic and transphobic bullying and eradicating the negative use of the word ‘gay’. We believe that children have the right to express their own identity in a way that is most comfortable for them.”

Has there been any backlash from parents? “None at all,” she insists. “The thing is, we’re not insisting on anyone doing anything. It’s not about influencing children. It’s about giving them choice.”

What about the pupils? Are they turning up in every uniform combination under the sun? Apparently not. “We still have the battle with children who don’t wear uniform,” she notes. “We still have more trouser-wearing across the board than boys wearing skirts. But that’s about what’s seen as acceptable in society and you know what? We need to work on that, too.”

-Article taken from The Guardian

Nine-year-old Stormi set out last month to sell cookies just like every other Girl Scout — with a sales pitch and a goal.

“I like to sell cookies because it’s very nice to sell cookies,” she told BuzzFeed News. Cookies, she said, “make people smile.”

But when Stormi, who is transgender, started knocking on neighbors’ doors near her home in Herrin, Ill., one man turned her away, saying: “Nobody wants to buy cookies from a boy in a dress.”

“It made me sad,” Stormi told BuzzFeed News. “Because I’m a girl.”

So, she said, she found a way to shut down her bully and sell more than 3,000 boxes of cookies.

[Girl Scouts choose transgender girls over $100,000 donation]

In addition to raising funds for the Girl Scouts, Stormi wanted to donate cookies to local foster children — because she is one. She went into Illinois’s foster care system about three years ago, her foster mother, Kim, told BuzzFeed, which did not use the family’s last name.

Attempts to reach the family through the Girl Scouts this week were unsuccessful.

BuzzFeed reported that Stormi decided to join the scouts last year; she recently told her foster mother that she wanted to give cookies to other children in the system.

But, her foster mother said, last month’s incident involving the neighbor was jarring.

“She was like, ‘Why am I not good enough?’” Kim told the news site. “We just started talking and she decided she wasn’t going to let him win.”

Stormi started selling her cookies through the Girl Scouts’s online portal, Digital Cookies, last week. She wanted people to choose the option “deliver in person.”

“My troop plans to use the money to help us go on trips,” she wrote online. “I have my own plans as well. At my request my family will donate boxes to local foster kids like me!”

She added: “I have learned that even though people can be mean I shouldn’t give up!”

Supporters have rallied around Stormi’s cause.

A New York-based comedy duo gave people who bought Stormi’s cookies free admission to a show. A California multimedia musical agreed to donate a box for every ticket sold.

An LGBTQ support group in Idaho sent out a call for support, too. “While out selling cookies,” a member from Idaho Falls Gender Community wrote, Stormi “was met with negativity, no orders, and even one less than kind person. … As a parent, this made me angry. As a parent of transgender children, this made me livid!

“I’m ordering all of my cookies from Stormi!”

Stormi’s project ended over the weekend.

[Selling Girl Scout cookies online can have a dark side]

Transgender Girl Scouts have struggled to gain acceptance.

After a troop in Colorado admitted a 7-year-old transgender girl in 2011,several Girl Scout troops in Louisiana disbanded in protest and a California teen called for a boycott.

“Girl Scouts of the U.S.A. … is not being honest with us girls, its troops, its leaders, its parents or the American public,” the teen said in a YouTube video, released by a Houston-based group called the “Honest Girl Scouts.” “Girl Scouts describes itself as an all-girl experience. With that label, families trust that the girls will be in an environment that is not only nurturing and sensitive to girls’ needs, but also safe for girls.”

In 2015, a Girl Scouts troop in Washington was handed a $100,000 donation — as long as the girls agreed not to use the money to support transgender children.

The Girl Scouts of Western Washington returned the check.

“Girl Scouts is for every girl,” Megan Ferland, the Girl Scout council’s chief executive, told Seattle Metropolitan over the summer. “And every girl should have the opportunity to be a Girl Scout if she wants to.”

As an organization, Girl Scouts of the USA supports LBGTQ children.

“Placement of transgender youth is handled on a case-by-case basis, with the welfare and best interests of the child and the members of the troop/group in question a top priority,” the organization said on its website. “That said, if the child is recognized by the family and school/community as a girl and lives culturally as a girl, then Girl Scouts is an organization that can serve her in a setting that is both emotionally and physically safe.”

Kim told BuzzFeed the support motivated Stormi to fight back against discrimination.

“This is something I have been trying to instill in her for years,” Kim told the news site. “How worthy she is; who she is is okay. For her to be able to read all these messages that people are sending from around the world to support her, the love is just overwhelming.”

[Girl Scout Cookies boycott sought by teen after organization admits transgender child]

Jay Strobel, spokesman for Girl Scouts of Southern Illinois, called Stormi’s effort “amazing.”

“She decided to donate boxes to something close to her heart — which is foster care,” Strobel told The Post. “She took something that wasn’t so pleasant and she turned it into a positive experience.”

Stormi said donating Girl Scout cookies to foster children is a tradition she wants to continue.

“I want kids like me to know they are perfect just the way they are,” she told BuzzFeed. “There are people all over the world that love you. Never give up because it does get better.”

Original Article from The Washington Post. You can view the original article here: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2016/02/02/transgender-girl-scout-stands-up-to-bully-who-wouldnt-buy-cookies-from-a-boy-in-a-dress/

TIME Magazine just declared that “The Gender-Neutral Bathroom Revolution is Growing.” This week, San Francisco joins Washington D.C., Philadelphia, Austin, Seattle, Santa Fe, and New York City in requiring all businesses and city buildings to designate single-stall restrooms as all-gender. While transgender and gender nonconforming people have the legal right to use restrooms that correspond to their gender, this kind of legislation is still a relief for people with disabilities, trans and gender nonconforming people, and families with small children — not to mention women simply tired of waiting on line for the women’s restroom while the single-stall men’s bathroom stands empty.

The new legislation introduced by San Francisco Supervisor David Campos and crafted with the support of Transgender Law Center will be the most comprehensive of its kind in the country, with robust enforcement mechanisms and a requirement for new buildings to include an all-gender option.

Read the powerful speech that Jennifer Orthwein, TLC Volunteer Staff Attorney, shared at the SF press conference about the difference an all-gender bathroom can make:

“When I was born, the doctors told my parents I was a girl. And from then on, the expectations of how I should dress and behave began. I never felt comfortable presenting as a girl or a woman, but never really felt I was a boy or man either. I never really understood, and still don’t, why, because of my body, I have to use specific spaces, particularly when using them subjects me to harassment and sometimes violence.

One of the most traumatic incidents occurred while searching for a wedding venue with my fiancé and mother. I exited the women’s restroom of a hotel and as I approached them, someone grabbed my shoulder and spun me around – it was a man with his fist clenched and raised. I don’t remember his exact words, but I knew why he was about to hit me so I threw up my hands up and shouted, “I am a woman.” Once he heard my voice and those words, his fist relaxed and he responded, “Oh, I’m sorry.” I looked into my mother’s eyes. They expressed so much fear and as he walked away my whole body just shook and I began to cry.

Experiences like this are not uncommon for people like me. Other experiences include having a security guard kick and bang on a single-use restroom door, threatening to break down it down and remove me while I was using it. I have also had groups of women in the restroom line harass me in an attempt to redirect me to the men’s room.

People seem to feel justified in policing gendered spaces and they do so based on their assumptions of a person’s gender. No one should fear being assaulted or harassed for using something as basic and necessary as a restroom. It is my hope this ordinance will increase restroom access for everyone and reduce the anxiety and fear people like me often experience when forced to choose between sex-segregated facilities that may not be consistent with how others perceive us.”

This Article originally from Transgender Law Center. You can view the original here: http://transgenderlawcenter.org/archives/12358